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Journalist, essayist What Grindr Taught Me About Dating Older Men These guys had been through the emotional throes of dating, and ultimately, they had been able to fall in love again — even multiple times. I needed to know their secrets. The image I had conjured of the thirty-two-year-old currently en route to my front door from our meager interaction on Grindr was as telling as a police report: And often enough, the photo too ended up a rough sketch. This was last summer when I had just turned twenty-two, fresh off the boat from flirting with my first serious relationship. I was seasick, and as this older man and I hit the sheets, I found that my body struggled to deliver what I had ordered.

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